On the decision to Not have children.

I have decided not to have children. It seems as if there was always something tapping me on the shoulder that said, “Don’t do it!” It always terrified me to think of merging myself with another person (the father of the child) and having an obligation with this person who could and would inevitably change. That just seemed like a risk too great to take. In this article by Brainpickings, Marla Popova expresses her interest in famous women who have made the decision not to have children.

I like this quote: “Years ago, I remember watching The Tonight Show with Joan Rivers, who was the guest host. Gloria Steinem, who was about forty years old at the time, was her guest. In her usual obnoxious way, Joan said to Gloria, “You know, my daughter has been the biggest joy in my life and I can’t imagine not having her. Don’t you regret not having children?” Gloria Steinem didn’t miss a beat. She answered, “Well, Joan, if every woman had a child there wouldn’t be anybody here to tell you what it’s like not to have one.” Joan looked at her like that thought had honestly never crossed her mind. It was a true gift for me to be able to pull together writers who are here to tell you “what it’s like not to have one.”

In a gentle way, this quote resonates with me. Perhaps it is not that I am anti-parenting, or that I desire a great and angry opposition to having children as a way to be self righteous or some other heightened emotion. Rather, it is I want to be a woman who knows what it is like NOT to have kids. I like that.

Finding Fela

This looks like it is going to be pretty amazing. Check it out: http://www.vanguardseattle.com/2014/08/27/finding-fela/

R.I.P. Actress. Vinyl album cover. #illustration #typography I really like how simple and effective this is.

retroadv:

Joaquin Phoenix - Photographed by Craig McDean

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snowpiercerfilm:

Did you know Snowpiercer’s graphic novel was just translated into English this year, and immediately sold out its first run?

Vinyl record playing at Stumptown coffee 12th ave. Nils Frahm.

Cool typography. Nils Frahm on vinyl. Front cover.

Shot of the Space Needle last night while I was walking home from Uptown Cinema. 

Awesome book cover. Someone had this book at stumptown while they were ordering and it stopped me dead in my tracks! Oooo! Bright yellow and green. Love it! I love how the space around the text on the cover makes the bird seem like it is in flight!